Child of God, do not judge others. It is a tempting thing to find fault and error in others, but judgment does not build others up. It is easy to assume that you know better or have all the answers, or worse, that you may be a better person than another. Such thoughts are not beneficial. You must remember that you yourself are not perfect, so take care not to offend others with harsh judgment lest you be judged as well.
Rather than judge, be gentle with others, lifting them up with your kind words and deeds. Do this, and you will be blessed with many friends. It is said a house divided against itself cannot stand; neither can the body of believers. Put aside differences and unite as believers, strengthening each other and the church for the sake of Christ. Avoid rash judgments and a desire to find fault in others. God respects moral character, not appearances, wealth, or earthly rank. Put aside all temptation to judge others and rid yourself of this unrighteous behavior. And guard your mind, or it will wander in the direction of thinking more highly of yourself than others.
As a Christian, you are called to love and accept all people, regardless of their actions or beliefs. Instead of judging, strive to show everyone compassion and understanding. In everything you do, help those who are weak in strength, self-control, and faith. Bear with their shortcomings; do not exploit them. And remember Jesus’ compassion for those unable to help themselves except by their dependence on him. Do this always, not just when it serves you well. To judge is not only unjust but also decidedly unfair. Look to the interests of all others and earn respect for your impartial, equitable character rather than contempt for your unfair and biased ways. Your lack of judgment will be seen as an increase in your grace.
I know you want to ask me if it is realistic to never judge anyone. Let me remind you that God gave you the power of discernment, and Christ said to be sly while living in the broken world. There are times when judgment is necessary, but only when necessary to reach an honest evaluation about a person or situation so that you might do or say the right thing, and never to belittle someone else so that you might puff yourself up. Jesus asked you to stop searching for the shortcomings of others and to look inwardly to examine your heart and motives. He knew that if you focus on your own faults and weaknesses instead of those of someone else, you would become more empathetic with your neighbors, perhaps even your enemies.
Do not forget that justice belongs only to the sovereign Lord. Rid yourself of a wrathful mind. If it is possible, as far as you have any say or influence in the matter, live at peace with everyone. Do not forget that your own actions and thoughts will be judged just as harshly as those you may judge. By refraining from judgment, you will show love and forgiveness to all, just as God shows love and forgiveness to you.
Finally, while it is right to hate sin, it is not right to hate the sinner. It is God’s job to deal with the sinner, and your job to love and accept all, even those who may not believe or act as you think they should. Again, refrain from judgment, offer grace, and you will become an example for others to follow. May you always be known for your unbiased and benevolent behavior, and your increasing effort to think generously of others. Amen.
